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New York City Chapter of CHADDLocal Coordinators: HAL |
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Date: June 14th, 2010 Time: 5:55 PM - 7:15 PM Address: 65 East 89th Street, , Manhattan - St Thomas More Offices For: Adults, Parents, Caregivers, School and Mental Health Professionals Meetings are free to members and $5.00 to those who can afford it. Speaker/Topic: CHADD NYC June MeetingThe twice exceptional individual – intellectually gifted, with ADHD – continues to be an enigma, even within the field of ADHD. Because they successfully compensate for their hidden difficulties – at great emotional cost – their issues rarely come to the fore. These children have come to internalize a self-image revolving around astounding potential confounded by an in ability to realize it. That undermining discrepancy is psychically devastating for a teen to understand, accept or own. The conflictual sense of self inherent in this discrepancy is creates an intensity of shame specific to the twice-exceptional individual; indeed, they are unable to accept responsibility for perceived failures they cannot comprehend. In addition, significant delays in emotional growth thwart development of the ability for introspection necessary to accurately interpret or report their inner experience. This demoralizing conundrum gradually manifests in their distorted assumption that everyone holds them responsible for that discrepancy, and that they disappoint others even more than they disappoint themselves. To deny being the perpetrators of their own despair, they defend themselves by forcing their words into the mouths of others. Unfortunately, projecting their self-loathing does not free them from self-condemnation. The alleged crime of their families and other members of the support network is reflecting back the teen’s distorted recriminations. Nonetheless, these feelings result in strained resentments and isolation fueled by misunderstanding. The above sheds some light as to why we are rarely permitted a glimpse into the emotional experiences that haunt these children. However, I myself am a twice-exceptional 26-year-old young man with a unique vantage point. As a result of having a parent in the field, I received the benefits of every early intervention, as well as a relatively sophisticated understanding of the literature. In addition, I have worked in a psychiatric hospital, bearing witness to children and teens struggling with crippling shame. Having lived it, learned it and observed it, I am finally able to articulate the academic complexities of this dilemma while embracing the emotionally wrenching truth. Do I want to expose my own incredibly painful journey in order to illuminate the hidden dangers to psyche and soul, so that others may benefit from my experience? Awkwardly enough, yes. For information about transportation and parking click here. (Our meetings are not meant to diagnose or treat any illness or disorder. Consult your medical, legal, or financial professionals for assistance.)
LOCATION: Thomas More Offices, 65 East 89th Street - Manhattan Contact us: CHADD OF NEW YORK CITY - PO Box 133 - New York, NY 10024-0133 212-721-0007 - INFOLINE A not-for-profit organization dedicated to improving the lives of individuals and families with Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder
Volunteer Opportunities:If you would like to volunteer your talents to this group, please send us an e-mail at new-york-city@chadd.net
This information was last updated on: 05/13/2010 |
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